Don't ever worry about Hi Jacking my thread, AS. You are always welcome.
What you said here, mimics my thoughts and feelings EXACTLY
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Frankly I don't think DB'ing is that hard because I'm changing things about myself that needed changing anyway. The hard part is STANDING. Like you said, they may come back later... or never. I am not a young man and if I knew my W would never come back then I would push the D through myself and find someone else to share the rest of my life with. But as I've said in my thread, my biggest fear is that if I did that, then W would one day try to reconcile and then I'd have to face the most heart-breaking decision of my life.
