I'm asking in regards to you wanting to cut ties. If there are still things at your house that are hers, why not call and ask her to come get them. Or you could pack it up and put it in storage.
I have done that. She is adamant that she does not wish to do this until our D is finalized. I even asked her about changing her mailing address, so that she could receive her mail without relying on me. To me, it made sense, considering how she is now settled in pretty tight at OM's. She declined, stating that she didn't wish to change it until she knows for sure where she will end up. I am speculating, but I believe W and OM (as well as the other 5 people who live in the home) are moving. A little mind reading here, but I assume she meant she wanted to wait until after the move before changing her mailing address. Regardless, it doesn't make a lot of sense to me. It is not like changing a mailing address is a big effort.
Originally Posted By: labug
I'm not sure bringing up the apt would be a good thing at the moment. But personal effects, sure.
Why do you say this, LA? I ask, because my whole family feels it is a thorn in their sides that she is still occupying that apartment, 13 months after separation. My attorney has mentioned she would like W moved out as well. Actually with the exception of myself, and my fellow DB'ers, everyone in my life feels she should no longer be there. She isn't actually there anyway. She lives with OM, 24/7. She has for months. Daughter even has her own room, decorated with her things. For all intents and purposes, W is just storing her stuff (I guess) in the apartment. I think the reality of that situation will have to change very soon. It almost makes no sense at the point that she even has a key to our building, let alone occupies a portion of it.
