BC39.....The fight for my marriage continues

[BC39]

Thanks Accuray,

We haven't had any sort of R talk in months and I haven't asked her if she's attracted to me again.

But her actions lead me to believe its headed in the right direction....

She gives me plenty unprompted I love you's, lots of flirting, kissing, hugging/cuddling. She holds my hand when were out shopping etc. (she had a hysterectomy 3 weeks ago so S is off the table for a while, but we've still "fooled around" a couple times since then). She tells me how much she appreciates me etc.

She talks about things we'll be doing next year (this hasn't happened since BD)

One dynamic that I believe has really pushed this forward is our work situation. We've worked together for a decade. That stopped 2 months ago. She now has all the time she wants to get her new business off the ground. I now make close to what we we're making combined, so I'm providing the majority of our income.

I'm taking care of her and I know she likes that. I've taken more of a leadership role. (She had more of a burden taking care of things for years leading up to BD a year and a half ago)