2t, I am excited for you on these great, positive things! You are db'ing so well. I love his slights towards not reeeeallly being happy. Very curious.
My H has been doing similar things too. He explained to me where he was going on a Saturday, it was for work and showed me his assignments. Then he thanked me for something I brought him saying it was very thoughtful and gave me a big hug. I did it only because I wanted to, not because I was expecting anything from him so it was a nice hallmark moment.
My H has also stopped going out on weekends or nights for the past two weeks. It will be interesting to see what he does for Christmas day...
Hmmmm...I'll be following your story since this is so terrific for you right now. And yes, you do sound very strong!
Go 2t!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.
