Trap alert!

Quote:
W: Lol.....really?? You managed that big tree all on your own?


Why on earth did you not see that trap? That is as old as Eve!

Quote:
Me: I had help.
W: Eh?
Me: A friend did it for me.


Could you not have said, "I managed" or something else? You know when you say "a friend" that she is immediately going to assume the friend is female. And, that's just what she did!

Quote:
W: Yeah well your little girlfriend can just undo it. I want MY tree.


Wow! She has forgotten all about her two OM. She didn't see it the same way when she was the one with a friend.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!