Here's my take. This isn't going to be the best holiday season ever, no matter what, right?
So why wait until after the holidays? Do you think drawing out the process is going to help somehow?
She's done, and she's been done for awhile, she wants out and she probably sees this as more of the same from you.
Do you love her unconditionally?
Do a 180.
Interesting...maybe i am reading wrong....but I've never seen someone tell the LBS to help with the divorce process/move the process along quicker for the sake of the WAS. Ive always seen make them do the work...dont help but slow it down either?
I'm with Mimi on this one. Labug are you saying I should just push things through starting immediately for her sake?
I'm also trying to look at that as she might interpret, me trying to ruin the holidays for her by hurrying it up and making demands, adding to her misery.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14