Man my age like nookie but it is not a priority as when we were 20. That is why. As men get older they become more clingy to their wife's and family. Only some decide to stray and have As.
Sex for guys my age are like fishing stories. Remember that lmao
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
You go, TTD! Don't let the basher get you down. It hurts even more coming from a friend. But we'll never bash you here! We're even gentle with those much-touted 2x4s. And this time around, where not even getting them out.
Who is this person to be judging you like this? You can't be expected to stand alone in a corner waiting for a person to realize they've lost their mind and made a stupid mistake.
You have to take care of yourself first. Be happy.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
Man my age like nookie but it is not a priority as when we were 20. That is why. As men get older they become more clingy to their wife's and family. Only some decide to stray and have As.
Sex for guys my age are like fishing stories. Remember that lmao
My goodness! Anyone would think you were in your 80s, not your 50s, lol. My H is 47 and even though I'd slowed down in that dept, he still wanted it regularly. It's probably the main reason that he left, even though he says it's not.
Originally Posted By: MileHigh
You go, TTD! Don't let the basher get you down. It hurts even more coming from a friend. But we'll never bash you here! We're even gentle with those much-touted 2x4s. And this time around, where not even getting them out.
Thanks MH It's nice to know who your friends are and I've got lot of friends on here who'll support me through the good times and the bad
Originally Posted By: 2stubborn2quit
Who is this person to be judging you like this? You can't be expected to stand alone in a corner waiting for a person to realize they've lost their mind and made a stupid mistake.
You have to take care of yourself first. Be happy.
I agree If he's moving on then why shouldn't I. It's not as if I've found anyone yet and we're making mad passionate love every day of the week, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Last night I was up until 1am fixing the washing machine Hopefully it's sorted now, it was going ok this morning I think it's the pipes outside that are clogged up, but I probably won't get a plumber this side of Christmas. Fingers crossed it's fixed now H rang up this morning to say that he's taking my son out on Sunday to get my pressie and card for Christmas. He said he's been looking everywhere for the book, but can't find it. I said not to worry and gave him an alternative which he was pleased about I asked if he wanted my son to buy the calendar that he always gets, but he said he's already bought it for himself. He said he couldn't miss out on the penguin calendar, lol. Sometimes he does fool me into thinking that he's not got MLC, I guess some things that he likes don't change. I'm so glad that I didn't have to go to college this week. After a late night, I slept in until 10am! Decided then to go out to pot the last of my Christmas presents. Do you know it's ridiculous now posting pressies out, it's like going through customs! Have I got anything with batteries in them, have I got any aerosols, etc. The security nowadays is getting ridiculous and that's just to the UK! I've asked for a leaflet so I can check in future. I know I said that I was thinking of giving up on H, but MWD posted something on FB that made me think. She said you spend a lot of years building up your own history with your spouse, having private jokes, sharing traditions at Christmas and it just gets lost in the throws of D. She commented how sad it was. Makes you think doesn't it? When my H is behaving himself, I think yes I would like him back, but when he's the monster I think eurgh no! Guess I'll just have to see what the future holds for us
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
OMG it's like you're in my head, I have very similar experiences with W.
Did you also ever notice that there were times where it seemed he was behaving/acting nice, made you think this might work out after all and then later on realize he was just playing nice with self centered motives? I get these flashbacks once in a while and just get hurt all of a sudden when my day was going along great.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
Heh heh heh, thanks for throwing away the 2 x 4 you have with my name on it!! TTD, you will know what you want when you "FEEL IT". I realize that sounds ultra simplified but, isn't that where it all begins? When you feel something one way or the other you will react to it. There very well may be alot of false feelings as well as true feelings. At some point however, you indeed will know what "feelings" to act on...
OMG it's like you're in my head, I have very similar experiences with W.
Did you also ever notice that there were times where it seemed he was behaving/acting nice, made you think this might work out after all and then later on realize he was just playing nice with self centered motives? I get these flashbacks once in a while and just get hurt all of a sudden when my day was going along great.
Yes I do 2stubborn2quit This is why I'm being more cautious now when he is acting nice, I think what's coming next. It's not a nice feeling is it? Twice now when he's acted real nice for a few weeks at a time I got hit by a big wall. The first time was when he said he wanted a d and the second was when he wanted to sell the house.
Originally Posted By: 2old
Heh heh heh, thanks for throwing away the 2 x 4 you have with my name on it!! TTD, you will know what you want when you "FEEL IT". I realize that sounds ultra simplified but, isn't that where it all begins? When you feel something one way or the other you will react to it. There very well may be alot of false feelings as well as true feelings. At some point however, you indeed will know what "feelings" to act on...
Yes 2old I know what you mean about these feelings, but as yet I've got to work out what these feelings are, lol. Are they lust or love or just a general feeling of wanting? I've not had these feelings before and so it was a lot easier to just say - no I'm standing for H. Now I keep getting these feelings, it's harder to push them away. Does that make sense?
Originally Posted By: MileHigh
Just every other day, then? Yeah, I'm slowing down a bit these days, too.
No, not even every other day, lol. I'm getting too old for bedroom antics, lol. If Rick can get too old at 50, then so can I hehe.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Yup makes perfect sense....Maybe I should say it like this: when you are able to sort through your feelings, that is when you will know!!
As far as Rick being old, nah, his only real problem is that he is from JOISEY!! hehehe....Great to see him jump in on your thread TTD, he may be from JOISEY but, he is wise....
Hopefully it's sorted now, it was going ok this morning 