Here's my take. This isn't going to be the best holiday season ever, no matter what, right?
So why wait until after the holidays? Do you think drawing out the process is going to help somehow?
She's done, and she's been done for awhile, she wants out and she probably sees this as more of the same from you.
Do you love her unconditionally?
Do a 180.
Interesting...maybe i am reading wrong....but I've never seen someone tell the LBS to help with the divorce process/move the process along quicker for the sake of the WAS. Ive always seen make them do the work...dont help but slow it down either?
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope