One other thing -- just because she wants to talk about what you said doesn't mean you have to indulge her and respond to her request.

Often the WAS will decide what they will and will not talk about and too bad for the LBS if they don't like it.

You don't owe her an explanation. If you want to discuss it with her, you can decide to do so, but you can also tell her you don't think there is anything to discuss and you have plans tonight and won't be around. That might be the best response.

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015