Heh heh heh, thanks for throwing away the 2 x 4 you have with my name on it!! TTD, you will know what you want when you "FEEL IT". I realize that sounds ultra simplified but, isn't that where it all begins? When you feel something one way or the other you will react to it. There very well may be alot of false feelings as well as true feelings. At some point however, you indeed will know what "feelings" to act on...