Yeah I have become that great person. At least I feel so. I have my life and do things that I want. I have gotten into great shape.
We also have been having a great time together though. There has been in no arguments. I have not pushed or pursued our relationship. My daughter and I go off and do things by ourselves. I'm a good cook so I have prepared fabulous meals. I have done repairs around our house. I have been a good friend to her listening attentively. Given her plenty of quality time and praise since I have found out that they are her primary love languages.
My wife includes me in everything that is happening in her life. If it just weren't for the void of intimacy in our relationship this would be great.
It is this living together that is tough. Being in a loveless relationship [censored].
How can I break down those walls or am I beating a dead horse worrying about it?


Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago
ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013
M-48, W-40
D-9
Living together in separation for daughter