So I have been reading along on this forum now since March (I know just call me lurker) and it seems so many LBS women fight to keep your house. Is there a reason? Do you not hate it? Do you not want to move and start over?
I'm in a dilemma currently. I hate coming home to my house every day. It depresses me, all it does is remind me of "our" life. All I really want to do is curl up in bed. The house is a 5BR 3bath so it's definitely too much room for us. I do have another D21 first marriage but she's always at college. I WANT to move, however, the housing market [censored] here and I am in an awesome location now with quite a bit of equity in house that H doesn't even want because my parents gave me the money for. You have to be very careful where to live within the Tri county area here because of crime and housing going down.
My parents don't want me to let the house go/sell it. It's confusing me.
So I just wondered why everyone else I noticed tries so hard to keep their house instead of making a fresh start.
M:40 H:42 M: 12yrs BD: 2/1/13 H moved out: 2/22/13 D: 11 Divorce started 11/13