Amb....

I think that you have to look at this now, with a different set of lenses....

Try to stop thinking about this in terms of saving a marriage, and think about it in terms of , there may be a new beginning in the future...

So for now, Lawyer up, and treat this as the business decision that it is....

I would take the time to get as many consultations as you can. And make sure that you consult with the biggest, baddest Divorce layer within 50 miles.

Now you may not be able to afford them, but at least if you consult, your spouse cannot use them due to a conflict of interest....

For now, settle in, and do not let this take your focus of a wonderful, magical Holiday season....

Like I said yesterday on UR's thread....

These things happen around this time of the year....

The MLCer feels close, so they "fuel away" from the LBS...

Nothing he told you in that e-mail was new information. There was nothing that hasn't been said before....

So maybe don't treat it as new information...

Who is he trying to "convince"

You ???

or Himself ???

Relax, and enjoy the day. Maybe do something special for yourself today....