I'm in the same situation as you are.
One thing to also consider with the house...
annual taxes, insurance, and the costs of maintenance....

I did not want to have to look at all the financial stuff.I did not want to believe h could treat me so, but it has to become business

I know you like to read and research.
so much to process right now...

M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13