Let it sit, you're right, there's nothing you can do to change her.

The more you push the more she's want to push back I would guess.

Looking back, where would you have politely ended the conversation if you had another chance? What might you have said?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss