I just wanted you to know I read the last two pages of postings. I'm so sorry. It is so painful at the holidays for such an email from H.
You've got lots of great advice and support. You're going to pull yourself together and acknowledge the email. You will get through this.
Just wanted you to know -- we don't know how/when your H will end his MLC. But I did hear the same things from my H:
I'm done I'm never coming back Sell the house Find a place to live Get a job -- you don't seem in a hurry And the emotional things he said too.
You have to move on like it is over for now...treat it/him like a business transaction, but the door will be open a teeny bit if he wants to come back.
Do protect yourself, your children, your interests.
You're on my heart today, Many hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway