I'm asking in regards to you wanting to cut ties. If there are still things at your house that are hers, why not call and ask her to come get them.

Or you could pack it up and put it in storage.

I'm not sure bringing up the apt would be a good thing at the moment. But personal effects, sure.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss