Originally Posted By: labug
I read your thread but don't comment, I think I did early on.

As long as you were speaking from a place of truth, sometimes you just gotta say what you gotta say. I don't think you need a 2x cause your W took care of that.

What's your plan going forward?


Thanks labug, I always value your insight as well, you've given me another perspective, I tend to think much differently than others.

If I were to take her request literally, I would contact my lawyer and tell her I would like to move forward with the divorce as quickly as possible, since W states that will help her in the healing process most quickly.

She has not responded to that email, and I really don't want to be dealing with this over Christmas/New Years/my birthday Jan 2. I am going to lay low for awhile and see what step she takes next unless you have some other advice to offer?


H: 29
WAXW: 30

Bomb Drop- 9/9/13
Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14
D Final- 5/21/14
XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14