Thanks AnotherStander, I know you're the king of validation, I've read through a lot of your responses.
She made a comment in person a few weeks ago that said "I know neither of us ever expected to be in this position." She also commented about multiple topics such as trading off the dog "I just can't do that, it would kill me."
So it's ok for her to express any feeling or emotion, but if I say the exact thing she has already stated, I'm the bad guy.
I understand she thinks it's all about her. She has stated before to me to stop making myself the victim. To some degree I am collateral damage, but I know she's the victim, that's why I included that part.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14