It was the best of times it was the worst of times

[KdogGS]

We were emailing back and forth regarding finances. She is trying to stick $4400 worth of renovation debt for the house on my side of the ledger. They were joint decisions to purchase appliances and such. She is claiming $8000 worth of "equity" in the car we bought when we got here in March. We purchased it for $24000 and I paid it down to $16000. However, I'm not claiming any equity from her car, since she bought it before marriage. We sold 2 vehicles before we moved here. One was joint, one was mine I purchased before I even met her, and had paid over $16,000 on before we got married. So I told her it was hard and killing me because it is, and I don't want to have to bring up these issues.

As far as why she thinks I deceived her from day 1, she has stated that everything was a lie, and that I only told her what she wanted to hear. She said that the real me does not exist and never did. She does not know the man she married.

Of course I disagree with all of this, but I'm not going to argue with how she feels.