I just got off the phone with daughter #2. She is 21 and one of the most organized, and logical individuals I know. We discussed her moving back home. My H. gives her 1200 a month for her apt. and necces. She is going to give her room-mates January and Feb. rent no utilities, and move back home.
We are in self-preservation mode. She will start the loan process for the Fall semester, so that will be her back up finances . She can put the loan money in the bank, and if the egg donation process goes through, which it should, she will be set. I will take in one boarder as soon as possible for the extra room I have. I prefer a student from the college nearby.
My H. will not know about the move until daughter tells him he doesn't have to pay rent anymore. Once the funds for college have been finalized, he will be told he no longer has to pay that.
I will look into either taking in kids for a year...driving a school bus...whatever I can get.
Due to the dogs and credit, staying here is the most logical for the future. It will be a struggle and I hope we can do it.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
