Another day, Another Opportunity

[NoMoreMistakes]

Thanks PM it is tough but what doesn't kill us makes us stronger/smarter.

So after three weeks of NC and then pushing to set the hiring date, W texts me asking to borrow my tent for camping next week with her friend.

It was weird, so I called it out. Not in an angry way but just to point out how back and forth she was being. I just said nicely, its been 3 weeks NC and we just set final hiring date, now you want a favor, help me understand.

She just said, "sorry shouldn't have asked. Its just that for the last 4 yrs you have been the person I go to".

My response was just that our dynamic is no longer that given the status of our divorce. I am no longer her go to person. If she is really in a jam or tough situation, then I probably shouldn't be her first call but that if I'm her last or only that she doesn't have to hesistate and that ild help if I could.