Send a holding email, as I would have said in my previous life.

Something along the lines of thank you for your honesty. I will look over your email and get back to you after the holidays.

Then get your lawyer in place and work out your financials. I'm not sure what the alimony situation is for you guys but work out if you need to get a job too.

But do not rush anything other than talking to your lawyer. That's a first.


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