I am NOT even close to having your experience and I share many of your thoughts about the WAS that just shut down. It does seem like more Rs happen when OP is there but to me it also seems like OP is present in most stiches. Think about what you tell newcomers about success-stories when they want to read them, what you say about the timeline (R only happens in less than a year on rare occasions), that all sitches are alike – read through your own advice, guy’s! You are both doing great! Keep on doing exactly that!
As I see it there are several on the piecing that have had had WAS like us! What I also see reading through sits with some age (6-7 months +) in here is a wish from all of us, that our sit was more like others:
Sits with OP wish that OP was not there Sits living together wish they didn’t Sits with MLC wish for WAS Sits with amicable WAS wish for not so amicable WAS (you wrote about this few days ago, AS – your post was a little in line with this.) ….and vice versa……
You come out here and wish that OP was there because that increases chances of R – I do not believe that many of the people in here with OP will agree to this!
Keep hoping until you decide not to – but do not stop hoping because you put your WAW into a special and more “difficult” group than other WAW.
I might be wrong and feel free to pull the 2x4, but we all have our WAS and they are ALL difficult but we all tend to look for reason for “why haven’t she/he returned yet?”. That’s because they are not ready! They might be tomorrow or they might never – nobody knows and neither do any one of you!
Just my 2c! Take care and enjoy the holiday
F
P.S.
Originally Posted By: AS
I'm right there with you though, it is damned hard to have any hope when you're dealing with a stubborn WAS that does not show one ounce of interest in us month after month after month.
OH, YES
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
