Hi 3, sorry you are having a rough night. I can relate to the feeling of just being exhausted. And I have two kids who are older and no job, so I can't even imagine how you feel.

I really think it's OK to complain for a bit, but yes, more productive to make a plan. Out of curiosity, why doesn't your H take the kids to his place ever?

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14