Thanks LTH! I have started to do that. Funny you say that. My journaling has help me with this. I have started to notice a differnce with her already over the last couple of days. Most of the time we end up having sex is because I will say, " you in the mood for sex" She responds, "not really, but fine if that's what you want" So it's plainly obvious like you were saying. My problem is my LL is physical touch, I crave it. I woke up to her rubbing my back the other night while she was watching shows. It was so nice. It's not just sex, I love cuddling, hugging kissing. PT isn't her thing though. Acts of service is. Which I have gotten so much better at. Thanks for sharing LTH!
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it