I read some of that book, mostly the opening the cage chapter.

Would you use his verbiage or come up with your own?

What do you mean by leaving with the kids? Without her knowledge?

What does having her leave without them mean?

And in the final analysis, you have to decide if you're done.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss