Labug, thanks for sharing your story! It does sound like a victory. Funny how things like that can be so spectacular. Instead of letting it get out of control you were able to reach out to each other. And doesn't it feel so good? I've been trying so hard to communicate better with my husband, and sometimes it seems so unnatural to me. I'm sure one day it will come easier.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.