First of all, Wonka, I am so glad it wasnt anything I wrote that caused you any upset.
I wanted to say a few things. I understand very well that Ms. Wonka wanted closure. I once wanted that, too. I dont anymore.
For me, it wont change anything, wont fill anything, wont explain anything. What happened, happened. Was it excrutiating? Ab-so-freakin-lutely. But it all happened as it should. The journey for me was a necessary one.
That is not to say you shouldnt offer it, if that is what you want to do. I am just not so sure she really needs it anymore. I am not so sure you can ever provide it.
I think you making sincere amends would be for you, too. I am just not so sure how you would go about that in a way that would feel right to you, or complete for you.
I applaud your willingness to look within and to realize what you have.
And I pray that whatever you decide to do, brings you both peace.
