Im doing cartwheels for you!! Very proud of how you handled yourself and said what needed to be said.
Hold your ground.
Inspite the fact that I too have stood up for myself recently, and need to repeat from time to time. I feel better for myself and am no longer HIS carpet or punching bag. Although he still tries to keep me in those positions, I do not. I have gained self respect. I also think its high time that he sees that I respect myself too.
We have enabled these "boys" for far too long. We are both kind & compassionate women and didn't want "them" to "hurt". We put them first. Ultimately, it got us nowhere. Hasn't it? We have learned our valuable lesson and its now that we must hold strong...for ourselves, for our dignity.
We are now sending a clear message.... this is where we take back OUR control.
High five !!!
Magic!
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
