The end of Limboland

[mj0221]

So does my H have OW? Probably but who knows. That is just how secretive he is. But I have come to realize it just doesn't matter because he isn't coming home....now or never possibly.

I have to try and manage my life what used to be 2 people as head of it now 1. I have done so for 10 months now.

H did send me divorce papers last month through attorney. Everything in there was a joke. I know in DB a lot of people say sit on it some. I did not.

Fellow DBs...I took time off my very stressful job in November because things got to be too much. I know how all of you here feel. H is not going to give up on this divorce so I will give it to him but I will attempt to get what I want. My attorney sent his a response a week later. 4 weeks later we are still waiting. I do however think I will expect a nice Christmas present in the form of a response next week. He's quite ruthless these days.