Is this a question that Ms Wonka can answer for you Wonka? Has she given you clues in the past that would lead you to a better understanding of what she's looking for, and by that, you as well can find full closure?

"I want to make myself abundantly clear here:

Romantic reconciliation with Ms. Wonka is most definitely out of the question. Not happening at all."

this seemed strong to me.....has someone suggested that you do?

When I see this from vets I wonder do I accept there will never be closure or will H, one day, offer it to me?

I truly believe it's a 2013 year.....I have a friend that has been divorced for years and even she is telling me that this is the worst christmas since her H left her. 2013 was a year of change for soooo many people....which means that those of us that listened and made the necessary changes will reap rewards in 2014 (it's my story and I'm sticking to it:))


M 16 T 20
M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15
Bomb drop April 4;
Moved out April 13
D started-full force
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Dancing through the fire
Cause I am a champion and
you’re gonna hear me ROAR