tigerlil, I get the feeling here when I read this post, that your H is holding things over you and is very manipulative. Do you feel that way? Just reading how upset you were and bursting into tears and moments of panic had me so upset for you. I could be wrong, just my observation.

I get the gut feeling that you need to work on setting more strict boundaries that would allow you some more freedoms. Maybe the vets might have some better guidelines.

I just hate seeing you so confused and feeling helpless with the way he is treating you.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.