H and I are going shopping for D/S for Christmas on Sunday. Originally H wanted me to give him a list of things and he would pick them up (in my mind why not give him the whole list that would be a DREAM, ha ha). I was shocked when he said we could do it together. Baby steps.

Earlier we got in a little disagreement about texting. I sent H a text and H though he replied to it and didn't and then said something about another text. Which was read by him incorrectly. This has been an issue, so much can be misconstrued in texts. I said I didn't want to text any more because it seems to cause problems. H said what am I supposed to do call you then? I said I don't know I guess? H then said we might as well hurry up and get divorced then...I later asked what that meant. He said so we don't have to talk??? I guess if we are not filed/divorced then we can still talk?
Then this morning is when he said we could shop together??
Another day in the life of......keep swimming!!


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.