Yes, I asked her to leave the church. She doesn't belong there. Don't blame me for her spite and resentment.
I am not allowing resentment to eat away at me. I simply want a different relationship. I communicate very effectively.
She wants what she wants and threatens when she doesn't get it. She won't even consider anything I want. This has nothing to do with communication or resentment. It is all about selfishness and the personality of a bully.
I have worked on forgiveness. It doesn't stop the phone from ringing or the bullying behavior. I am going to give AJM's suggestions a shot. It can't hurt.