I think I understand but H, in his infinite need to escape, had the notice of pending separation filed so that if any bank looks at they will see what's happening. He did that so I couldn't take out a loan against the house, cause you know it's ME with the spending problems......

He emails me this morning (I was a little surprised that he even asked me as he's been in contact with S19....to a limited extent anyway)

Hi WR,
Need to confirm times with you for Christmas..
I see the kids mass is at 5pm can you please let me know what time I can pick up the boys.
Thank you
(H's initials)

Hi H
I would think that Mass is over approx 6:15, usual time, and our boys should be outside the church around then.
WR

SIDE NOTE the "Our" was for you wonka LOL

OK i will pick them up at the house at 6:30

I REALLY want to email him back and say I had no plans on going home but directly to my sister's house so you can pick them up at Church or at her house but I think that may cause some issues?? I also thought to give him his box of ornaments, the ones I've purchased for him through the years....there's only a few.....and S14's photo. There's also this motorized santa, that we added christmas lights to the tree....it's about 24-28" tall, that reads "The Night Before Christmas" that he bought years ago and was very proud of it. I don't know if I should pack that up for him too? Don't know if he'd think that I was insulting him or something.


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Bomb drop April 4;
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D started-full force
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Dancing through the fire
Cause I am a champion and
you’re gonna hear me ROAR