Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

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Wow, CallaghanClown: Can't believe reading your story how some similarities. I can't believe when I look at the calendar that I've been going through this for almost 3 months now: I have become obsessed with this situation and I don't know how to get out of it. Just talked to my husband about an order we had placed for our printer and couldn't help asking if he wanted to come early for dinner before my daughter's girl scout meeting, when he is coming to watch my son. An emphatic no - just when I think I am seeing some signs of softening, I get smacked down. I keep hoping like a fool, that I can bring him around.

I had already settled on visiting with his father on Saturday before Christmas - I was telling myself for the kids' sake, but really I want to be with him and show him my good side. But I know I am still trying to win him back - and it is not working. It is sad and I am a mess. I am driving my sister crazy constantly talking about this to her. When I reach acceptance, it is only for the briefest of times. The best wishes to you also going through this.