Originally Posted By: makingmagic

What do we do then? Its a fuzzy warm time of year. I don't like to be holding a grudge or negative feelings towards my h. What do you recommend I do, so that I don't push h further away during this time? Knowing this "closer" will push... I want to be "on guard" and aware. Thanks for telling me this.





You start by taking your hand out of his cookie jar...

It's the same as we talk about all of the time...

Stay out of his head, and stay into your own head...

Make this Holiday season about yourself, and your children(?) ..

Let him take his ride on Santa's magic sleigh.....