Mach.... you stated:

"The "closer" that you feel, the more they will feel the need to push away from it.

Please do not let YOUR expectations ruin this magical time of the year. "

What do we do then? Its a fuzzy warm time of year. I don't like to be holding a grudge or negative feelings towards my h. What do you recommend I do, so that I don't push h further away during this time? Knowing this "closer" will push... I want to be "on guard" and aware. Thanks for telling me this.

Magic


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)