"The "closer" that you feel, the more they will feel the need to push away from it.
Please do not let YOUR expectations ruin this magical time of the year. "
What do we do then? Its a fuzzy warm time of year. I don't like to be holding a grudge or negative feelings towards my h. What do you recommend I do, so that I don't push h further away during this time? Knowing this "closer" will push... I want to be "on guard" and aware. Thanks for telling me this.
Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)