Thanks NQ smile I may or may not do anything about the attention I'm getting. Probably not, but it's my way of trying to detach from my H. It worked last time he left, which is why I'm trying this strategy smile Last time I knew that he'd moved on as he moved in with the OW, I got friendly with this lad I knew and then he ended up getting a girlfriend. He told me as well, guess he thought I was just a friend. Nothing happened between us, though at the time I would've liked it to happen. I also made sure that our mutual friend knew all the goings on as well smile We've both lost contact with our mutual friend ages ago, which is a shame as he was a real source of gossip smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!