She is separating out phone account. That is the only bill that we still split. She pays a (canceled) credit card bill that is in my name, I am on the title and loan to her car, and she is on title to my house. And we're still legally married. Those are the only things that tie us together.

It is not so much that she is separating the phone account, it is an accumulation of things that leads me to believe that something more is going on.

There have been ups and downs in my sitch, but things seem to be more steadily moving in a negative direction since mid October.


Me-45
W-44
T-7 years
M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated)
Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)