F, I think that conversation sounds fine! I wouldn't spend too much time trying to mind read. I think it is nice that you invited her to the movie and she immediately responded with an enthusiastic 'yes.' Instead of viewing the conversation as "she seems happy without me," maybe look at it is as a good interaction between the two of you. Also, look what happened. You decided to reach out a bit, and she responded positively. See how that movie goes. If it goes well, why not reach out again? Just in little ways. See what transpires.
I think another low risk way to test and check is to send a funny text or email, maybe forwarding a link of a story that reminded you of her, or tell her something funny that happened, or whatever. Or even something about the kids that is funny?
I'm glad your friends shared their thoughts and compliments with you - it does feel so good to have the support of others, doesn't it? And you are lucky to have RL friends who aren't bashing your W or telling you to move on.
F, it sounds like things are going well, keep up the forward momentum in baby steps until she gives you a sign to stop. Just my $.02.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
