Originally Posted By: AJM

I hope that at some point my ex finds the happiness and contentment she set out looking for. That she felt she was missing all of a sudden. I hope that my kids forgive us both. I hope my ex figures out her sh*t and can forgive herself when she does. Without the anger. Without the re-remembering. Without the rose colored glasses. Why? Because I believe that will bring her the happiness and peace she left for. I may not understand it, but I would like to think that's the happy ending for us all. That would bring meaning to the otherwise strange behavior and lies. With or without the meaning, it is what it is smile





Well said AJ.....

: )

I also hope that my Ex can eventually become a whole person that can finally put her issues behind her...

So that she can give to her new partner all of the things that she was incapable of giving in our relationship.

So that she can look at him without the emptiness in her eyes , and the total befuddlement over life issues that plagued the latter part of our marriage...

I hope that she finds inner peace , and can form a stronger, deeper relationship with our children in the future....

I also hope that she can finally find the ever elusive, last piece of her inner puzzle...