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[melissag]

Hi Missy, sorry you find yourself in this situation. But know that you are in the right place for support and great advice.

Please do read DR if you haven't already. It will give you a plan and a framework to operate from, and just as importantly, it will give you hope.

He may have tried everything and is done trying (btw, they all say that, it is true to them right now), but you haven't tried everything, so get to work! Really try to identify what went wrong in the M, from your end. Why doesn't your H respect you? Take a look at yourself and figure out what you want to change for YOU. Oftentimes when we are in a bad M, we find that we have lost ourselves too. Find yourself again.

What are you doing to GAL? That is so important for you, and also it sounds like it will be one of your 180s.

Hang in there, keep posting, and keep reading!