I know our spouses are confused and in a fog with these sitch's, but cc's wife seems very interested in him. Even jealous at times.

What is keeping her from ditching her OM and moving forward to save her marriage? It just seems like a no brainer from this perspective! How long does this carry on for?

Makes me feel hopeless since my H is nowhere near showing that kind of interest towards me.

Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014