Thanks JF! I continue to get emails regarding settlement proposals. I ways respond politely and her response is always, "I'll let u know after talking to mom."

I cycle between periods of relief and sadness but she isn't the woman I married and it's best if I let her go to save me and the boys.

Thanks for all your prayers. They do make a difference.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later