Originally Posted By: jp787
F4,
What would it take for you to stop spinning, worrying, obsessing over your W or can you right now?
I have been thinking about this for a few days & I really don't know if I can.

Whenever I am doing what I am supposed to be doing (DBing etc) it is just an act, it's not genuine. I am just going through the motions.

People say you should do it for yourself & become a better person with or without your wife, but I don't want to be without my wife, all I want is my wife back so I don't think I can stop spinning, worrying, obsessing over her.

Originally Posted By: Wonka
Get a grip on your emotions as they are certainly driving your actions.
Yes my emotions are certainly driving my actions & they always have done.

I am a very emotional person, I get very sentimental & nostalgic about things. Even when me & wife were together I was very emotional & my emotions would drive my actions.


Me: 34, Wife: 34
Son: 2
Married: 8, Together: 14
Wife moved out 8/25/2013
Divorce papers received 01/10/2014