this is one of the most beautiful things I have read:
I hope that at some point my ex finds the happiness and contentment she set out looking for. That she felt she was missing all of a sudden. I hope that my kids forgive us both. I hope my ex figures out her sh*t and can forgive herself when she does. Without the anger. Without the re-remembering. Without the rose colored glasses. Why? Because I believe that will bring her the happiness and peace she left for. I may not understand it, but I would like to think that's the happy ending for us all. That would bring meaning to the otherwise strange behavior and lies. With or without the meaning, it is what it is
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home