I remember those interactions I used to get. I'm not a fan of when they sound all business like. So impersonal.

I remember you saying you haven't figured out how to detach without losing hope. I'm no expert on detaching when my ex is single,BUT the second I find out she's dating, a switch flips in my head and pride takes over. During my db'ing, I throw pride out the window. Now about the hope thing... Here's what I say to myself all the time. "No one knows the future". There are a million different ways your life could go. Many of the paths are you being happy. Happy alone, happy with another woman, happy with your wife. I find comfort in not knowing what the future holds. If there is a glimmer of hope in there, take it.


Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14