Reaching out for support and advice!!

[bluesgal]

Yes, Melissa, only 1% of those fears are ever realized. So true. I've dropped so much unnecessary worry from my life with ease. I just can't get my M ending off my mind.

Julie-My H seems happy with his freedom every once in a great while, then it seems reality sinks in. He has admitted he is not happy, hasn't been for a long time. It is frustrating that he seems so stuck at this point. Why won't he move forward!! He has agreed to go to couples counseling. I don't know if that's a good thing or not.

Labug-Yes, now I totally see that as pressure. Had a few drinks...not a lot, but enough to change his thought processes I suppose. I didn't see it as pressure at the time because I was so surprised. I get it now. Not sure how I can focus quick enough in the future to let it go. I'll have to work on it.